Gifted and neurodivergent at the same time. Schools tend to see one or the other, and whichever one they see first shapes everything that follows.
I had a student once who could explain the orbital mechanics of the Jupiter–Io system in detail that would have impressed a university physics tutor. He was eleven. He also could not consistently write his own name without reversals, and he would shut down completely if he was asked to do something that felt arbitrary or pointless. His IQ assessment placed him in the 97th percentile. His school records described him as a 'reluctant learner with significant fine motor difficulties'.
He was twice-exceptional, gifted in some domains, neurodivergent in others, and like most twice-exceptional children, he had been seen incompletely by almost every adult who had tried to understand him. When his giftedness was visible, his neurodivergence was attributed to laziness or attitude. When his neurodivergence was the focus, his giftedness went unmet and eventually started to look like disengagement.
This is the twice-exceptional paradox: the two things that define these children tend to mask each other, and the result is a student who appears average, or difficult, or puzzling, when they are in fact extraordinary, in more than one direction at once.
What twice-exceptional actually means
'Twice-exceptional', sometimes written as 2e, refers to children who are both intellectually gifted and have a learning difference, disability, or neurodevelopmental condition. Common combinations include gifted plus dyslexia, gifted plus ADHD, gifted plus autism, and gifted plus anxiety. Any permutation is possible, because giftedness and neurodivergence are independent traits that can co-occur in any combination.
In Australian schools, identification of twice-exceptional students is inconsistent at best. There is no nationally standardised approach. Many twice-exceptional children are identified as one thing only, either through a learning support referral that captures the difficulty but not the ability, or through a gifted program that captures the ability but not the support needs. The students who fall through both nets are the ones who end up most invisible.
“A twice-exceptional child is not a gifted child who also has problems. They are a different kind of learner entirely, and they need a response that holds both truths at the same time.”
How twice-exceptional children often present in school
- Highly verbal but poor written output, sophisticated thinking that doesn't make it onto the page due to working memory, fine motor, or processing differences
- Advanced conceptual understanding paired with significant gaps in foundational skills
- High performance in areas of interest, poor or absent performance in areas that feel pointless or repetitive
- Frustration and perfectionism, a child who knows how good their thinking is can be devastated when the output doesn't match
- Social difficulty, asynchronous development means the intellectual peer group is not the social peer group
- Behaviour that looks like defiance but is actually sensory overload, task avoidance, or boredom, sometimes all three simultaneously
The identification problem
Many twice-exceptional students are never formally identified as gifted, because their scores are suppressed by the co-existing difficulties. A student whose verbal reasoning is in the 98th percentile but whose processing speed is in the 30th will often produce a composite IQ score in the average range, a score that tells you almost nothing useful about either the strength or the need.
The most useful assessments for twice-exceptional students look at the profile, not just the overall score. A significant discrepancy between index scores, particularly verbal comprehension versus processing speed or working memory, is itself meaningful information. Parents seeking an assessment for a child they suspect is twice-exceptional should ask specifically about discrepancy analysis, not just total scores.
What twice-exceptional students need from school
- Challenge in their areas of strength, boredom is not a minor inconvenience for a gifted mind, it is a genuine barrier to wellbeing and engagement
- Scaffolding for their areas of difficulty, without ceiling-lowering in their areas of strength
- Permission to demonstrate understanding in formats that bypass the barrier, oral responses, diagrams, recorded explanations, instead of always handwriting
- A teacher or learning support person who holds the whole picture, not just the difficulty file or just the extension plan
- Explicit acknowledgement of their giftedness, many twice-exceptional children have heard so much about what's hard for them that they have lost sight of what is extraordinary about them
What parents can do
If you believe your child is twice-exceptional, document the evidence from both sides. Bring examples of their advanced thinking alongside examples of the difficulty. Ask for a comprehensive psychoeducational assessment that specifically looks at the profile, not just a learning difficulty screening. Request that the ILP or support plan address both the extension needs and the support needs, not one or the other.
And perhaps most importantly: keep telling your child what they are good at, in specific terms, even when the school system is mostly handing them feedback about what they find hard. Twice-exceptional children are at significant risk of internalising the difficulty as the whole story of themselves. They need adults in their corner who know it isn't.
A note on accuracy:While every effort has been made to ensure the information in this article is accurate at the time of writing, facts, policies and research can change. We're human, and sometimes we get things wrong. If you spot something that needs updating, we'd genuinely love to hear from you.
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Dave Harrison
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Dave Harrison is currently working in Australian schools as an Education Support Worker. He's the founder of THRVHUB, host of the Different Is Normal podcast, and a parent of a neurodivergent teenager, writing from both sides of the classroom.
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